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Carey E. Dassatti, 71

NORTH ADAMS, Mass. —  Carey Emil Dassatti passed away the morning of November 3, 2024, surrounded by love and family at the age of 71. He was born on April 1, 1953 to Erminio “Ernie” and Elizabeth “Mary” (Maroni) Dassatti in North Adams, MA. He attended Drury High School, where he starred on the football, basketball, and track teams, and graduated in 1971. He went on to Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, where he earned Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees and was a brother of the Chi Phi fraternity and star forward on the basketball team.

After living in Bennington, VT and Stamford, CT, he met Peggy Whelan and moved to New York, and the two married on November 17, 1984. Together they raised three children in a home full of love and laughter in Barrington, IL. Carey worked a long and decorated career building and leading teams and organizations in Human Resources, including 25 years at Motorola in and around Chicago, and 6 at Dawn Foods in Jackson, MI. His love of sports led him to become an avid golfer, a hobby he supported by eventually retiring to Cape Coral, FL, and becoming an active member of the Cape Royal Golf Club. As an April Fools Baby, he was ready with a joke all the way to his last moments, filling every space he occupied with laughter at every opportunity. And as a loving family man, he was excited to become a grandfather to his first grandchild, expected in January.

He is survived by his children: Griffin (Jessica), Mac, and Reagan Dassatti; his former wife, Peggy Dassatti; and his siblings: Ed (Mary Ellen), Mary Ann (Eric Gross) Dassatti, and Richard “Dick” (Sheila); his sister-in-law: Tracy Dassatti; one aunt Mrs. Henry (Marie) Maroni; several nieces, nephews and cousins. He is preceded in death by his parents, Ernie and Mary, and his brother, Bob.

Celebrations of his life have taken place in Cape Coral, FL and Chicago, IL. The North Adams celebration will take place on Saturday, May 3, 2025 from 12:00 PM to 3:00 PM at Grazie Restaurant, 310 State St. North Adams, MA.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Carey’s name to the Lou and Jean Malnati Brain Tumor Institute at Northwestern Memorial Hospital, or giving blood at your local blood bank. To add to the Book of Memories, please visit www.flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com


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To the entire Dassatti family, I'm so sorry to have just heard about Carey's passing. I was also one of those Haskins classmates that knew Carey as a good friend growing up. Many of us were part of the Furnace St./Walnut St. group of friends that would hang out and play games together as youngsters. We all looked up to Carey (obviously in more ways than one). I remember stopping in at his house (many times) on the way to Catechism Class at St Anthony's, and his mom would always have a nice little goodie for us before sending us on our way. Good memories of life in a simpler time! Rest in peace, my friend!
Bill "Billy" Girardi
from: Bill Girardi on: 04-17-2025

Dick & Sheila,

Sorry to be so late with this, but I just now heard of Carey's passing. I don't remember if I ever told you this story, but my first memory of Carey was when you and I were first becoming friends in Kindergarten at Haskins.
In the rush to get to school one day, I had forgotten my lunch bag at home. Carey found me in the hallway in a most unhappy mood (most people would say crying). After hearing about my problem, he reached into his pocket and pulled out a full size candy bar (in those days they weren't those little 1" long ones) and gave it to me so that I would at least have a snack. He totally calmed me down.
That was the kind of guy he was. That was what the whole Dassatti family was about. The tradition is still being carried on by you and the rest of your family.
We are very sorry for your loss, and hope to talk to you soon.

Love to all,
Rob and Mary Alice Girardi
from: Rob Girardion: 04-17-2025

To the entire Dassatti Family.
I am so sorry to hear of Careys passing. Not only was he a great athlete but a truly nice person. If you played sports with him as a teammate, he treated you with respect whether you were good or bad and I wasn't very good. I will always remember him for that. Rest in Peace.
Jim
from: Jim Moroccoon: 04-15-2025

Dick and Sheila, I am so sorry to hear of Cary’s passing. Sending prayers of comfort to all of you. May your memories bring you smiles in the coming days.
from: Maureen Taft Mooreon: 04-13-2025

A friend of Carey's since kindergarten at Haskins. His family was my second family. The Super 6 since high school included Kurt Van Steemburg, Dave Angeli, Ed Allah's, and Bill Rivard. We have been friends a long time. Carey will be missed. Wish I could have seen him one more time. RIP old friend.
from: Art Del Negroon: 04-13-2025

Dick, Ed and families. Sorry for your loss.
from: Bob Benceon: 04-13-2025

a great classmate and kind person. We talked about getting together in Florida but obviously I regret I did not act in time.
from: Alexander Fedotowskyon: 04-12-2025

Sorry for your loss. Keeping all of you in my thoughts.
from: Bet (Mastroianni) Azaron: 04-11-2025

One of the great things about being in the class of 71 at Drury was being Carey's classmate. My sincere condolences to the Dassati family.
from: Bill Flaherty on: 04-11-2025

I remember him at Drury playing sports sorry for your loss!
from: Sandy blakeon: 04-11-2025

Dear Dick & Sheila, I’m so very sorry for your loss. I believe you visited with Carey before his death. I’m sure that meant a lot to him and you. Stay well.
from: Diane Parsonson: 04-11-2025

Dick& Family, We are sorry for the loss of your loved one, Our condolences to the family in this time of need.
from: Tom&Chrissy Ostrander on: 04-11-2025

Dick, and Family, Sorry about the loss of your brother.
Francis Mastroianni
from: Francis J Mastroiannion: 04-11-2025

Condolences to his family. I always appreciated Cary's help when I worked as a ski patroller for the City of North Adams at the "Mt. Fish Pond Ski Area."
from: Bruce Whitneyon: 04-11-2025

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